Salida, A Memoir: My Departure and Recovery from an Abusive Marriage Paperback - 2015

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"This book is a potential 'life saver' for anone in an abusive relationship. It is especially relevant for women with abusive spouses. It is a book of hope and courage detailing the harsh reality involved in leaving an abusive partner. I found it quite inspiring." --John Bradshaw, author of two New York Times best sellers and a new book, Post Romantic Stress Disorder. It is possible to be completely present to your life even in the most difficult situation. You can turn adversity into an ally on the path to awakening. Leaving an abusive marriage is one of the most difficult things you can do. The reader is taken on a journey through one woman's marriage, her departure, and her encounter with a dark night of the soul. This was followed by an inner and outer transformation. The author shares her recovery process which is the piece that is often missing from similar stories. She gives us all insight into why women stay in abusive relationships. This is a question that perplexes so many people, including therapists. The story chronicles the difficulty in relating to someone who has borderline personality disorder. Anyone who has a borderline family member will find the insights and experiences of the author to be very helpful. In addition, the author discusses sex addiction, co-dependency, trauma and trauma bonds. There are many resources provided so the reader can explore these topics in more detail.