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How to Be: A Guide to Contemporary Living for African Americans Paperback - 2000

by Harriette Cole

The author of the bestselling "Jumping the Broom" offers frank advice in this lively guide to contemporary conduct, deftly combining the traditions and wisdom of the African-American community with mainstream manners.


From the rear cover

REAL MANNERS FOR REAL LIFE

Etiquette is more than knowing which fork to use. Good manners are the rules that let us find our way in today's rapidly changing maze of lifestyles, customs, and relationships. Anyone who doesn't know these rules is living and working at a real disadvantage.

In How to Be, noted author and editor Harriette Cole treats manners as a resource for the empowerment of people of African descent. She offers guidance drawn from the tried-and-true experience and wisdom of our African-American elders, as well as from European mainstream traditions in many areas of life, including:

FAMILY -- IMMEDIATE, EXTENDED, AND BLENDED

NEW CODES OF DATING, LOVE, AND SEX

ENTERTAINING FAMILY, FRIENDS, AND COWORKERS IN BOTH CASUAL AND FORMAL SETTINGS

WORKPLACE ISSUES -- FROM HOW TO RESIGN TO WHAT TO WEAR ON CASUAL FRIDAYS

RITES OF PASSAGE, INCLUDING WEDDINGS AND FUNERALS

HOLIDAY CELEBRATIONS LIKE CHRISTMAS, KWANZAA, AND JUNETEENTH AND MUCH MORE

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  • Title How to Be: A Guide to Contemporary Living for African Americans
  • Author Harriette Cole
  • Binding Paperback
  • Edition 1st Fireside Ed
  • Pages 528
  • Volumes 1
  • Language ENG
  • Publisher Simon & Schuster
  • Date 2000-02-02
  • Illustrated Yes
  • Features Bibliography, Illustrated
  • ISBN 9780684863085 / 0684863081
  • Weight 1.46 lbs (0.66 kg)
  • Dimensions 8.7 x 6.04 x 1.32 in (22.10 x 15.34 x 3.35 cm)
  • Themes
    • Ethnic Orientation: African American
  • Library of Congress subjects United States - Race relations, Etiquette - United States
  • Library of Congress Catalog Number 98-48335
  • Dewey Decimal Code 395.089

About the author

Harriette Cole is the author of Jumping the Broom: The African-American Wedding Planner; the Jumping the Broom Wedding Workbook; How to Be: Contemporary Etiquette for African Americans; Coming Together: Celebrations for African American Families; and Choosing Truth: Living an Authentic Life. She is the owner of profundities, inc., a life-coaching and image development production company, where she has worked with stars such as platinum-selling recording artists Alicia Keys, Erykah Badu, and Mary J. Blige. She lives in Harlem in New York City with her family
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