The Trouble with Islam Today: A Wake-Up Call for Honesty and Change Paperback - 2005

Excerpt

My fellow Muslims,

I have to be honest with you. Islam is on very thin ice with me. I’m hanging on by my fingernails, in anxiety over what’s coming next from the self-appointed ambassadors of Allah.

When I consider all the fatwas being hurled by the brain trust of our faith I feel utter embarrassment. Don’t you? I hear from a Saudi friend that his country’s religious police arrest women for wearing red on Valentine’s Day, and I think since when does a merciful God outlaw joy -- or fun? I read about victims of rape being stoned for “adultery,” and I wonder how a critical mass of us can stay stone silent.

When non-Muslims beg us to speak up, I hear you gripe that we shouldn’t have to explain the behavior of other Muslims. Yet when we’re misunderstood, we fail to see it’s precisely because we haven’t given people a reason to think differently about us. On top of that, when I speak publicly about our failings, the very Muslims who detect stereotyping at every turn label me a sellout. A sellout to what? To moral clarity? To common decency? To civilization?

Yes, I’m blunt. You’re just going to have to get used to it. In this letter, I’m asking questions from which we can no longer hide. Why are we all being held hostage by what’s happening between the Palestinians and the Israelis? What’s with the stubborn streak of anti-Semitism in Islam? Who is the real colonizer of Muslims -- America or Arabia? Why are we squandering the talents of women, fully half of God’s creation? How can we be so sure that homosexuals deserve ostracism -- or death -- when the Koran states that everything God made is “excellent”? Of course, the Koran states more than that, but what’s our excuse for reading the Koran literally when it’s so contradictory and ambiguous?

Is that a heart attack you’re having? Make it fast. Because if we don’t speak out against the imperialists within Islam, these guys will walk away with the show. And their path leads to a dead end of more vitriol, more violence, more poverty, more exclusion. Is this the justice we seek for the world that God has leased to us? If it’s not, then why don’t more of us say so?

What I do hear from you is that Muslims are the targets of backlash. In France, Muslims have actually taken an author to court for calling Islam “the most stupid religion.” Apparently, he’s inciting hate. So we assert our rights -- something most of us wouldn’t have in Islamic countries. But is the French guy wrong to write that Islam needs to grow up? What about the Koran’s incitement of hate against Jews? Shouldn’t Muslims who invoke the Koran to justify anti-Semitism be themselves open to a lawsuit? Or would this amount to more “backlash”? What makes us righteous and everybody else racist?

Through our screaming self-pity and our conspicuous silences, we Muslims are conspiring against ourselves. We’re in crisis, and we’re dragging the rest of the world with us. If ever there was a moment for an Islamic reformation, it’s now. For the love of God, what are we doing about it?

You may wonder who I am to talk to you this way. I am a Muslim Refusenik. That doesn’t mean I refuse to be a Muslim; it simply means I refuse to join an army of automatons in the name of Allah. I take this phrase from the original refuseniks -- Soviet Jews who championed religious and personal freedom. Their communist masters refused to let them emigrate to Israel. For their attempts to leave the Soviet Union, many refuseniks paid with hard labor and, sometimes, with their lives. Over time, though, their persistent refusal to comply with the mechanisms of mind-control and soullessness helped end a totalitarian system.

Not solely because of September 11, but more urgently because of it, we’ve got to end Islam’s totalitarianism, particularly the gross human rights violations against women and religious minorities. You’ll want to assure me that what I’m describing in this open letter to you isn’t “true” Islam. Frankly, such a distinction wouldn’t have impressed Prophet Muhammad, who said that religion is the way we conduct ourselves toward others -- not theoretically, but actually. By that standard, how Muslims behave is Islam. To sweep that reality under the rug is to absolve ourselves of responsibility for our fellow human beings. See why I’m struggling?

As I view it, the trouble with Islam is that lives are small and lies are big. Totalitarian impulses lurk in mainstream Islam. That’s one hell of a charge, I know. Please hear me out. I’ll show you what I mean, as calmly as I possibly can.

1.

HOW I BECAME A MUSLIM REFUSENIK

Like millions of Muslims over the last forty years, my family immigrated to the West. We arrived in Richmond, a middle-class suburb of Vancouver, British Columbia, in 1972. I was four years old. Between 1971 and 1973, thousands of South Asian Muslims fled Uganda after the military dictator, General Idi Amin Dada, proclaimed Africa to be for the blacks. He gave those of us with brown skin mere weeks to leave or they would die. Muslims had spent lifetimes in East Africa thanks to the British, who brought us from South Asia to help lay the railways in their African colonies. Within a few generations, many Muslims rose to the rank of well-off merchants. My father and his brothers ran a Mercedes-Benz dealership near Kampala, benefiting from the class mobility that the British bequeathed to us but that we, in turn, never granted to the native blacks whom we employed.

In the main, the Muslims of East Africa treated blacks like slaves. I remember my father beating Tomasi, our domestic, hard enough to raise shiny bruises on his pitch-dark limbs. Although I, my two sisters, and my mother loved Tomasi, we too would be pummeled if dad caught us tending to his injuries. I knew this to be happening in many more Muslim households than mine, and the bondage continued well after my family left. That’s why, as a teenager, I turned down the opportunity to visit relatives in East Africa. “If I go with you,” I warned my mother, “you know I’ll have to ask your fat aunties and uncles why they practically enslave their servants.” Mum meant the trip to be a good-bye to ageing relations, not a human rights campaign. In order to avoid embarrassing her, I stayed home.

While Mum was away, I thought more about what it means be “home.” I decided that home is where my dignity lives, not necessarily where my ancestors originate. That’s when it dawned on me why the postcolonial fever of pan-Africanism -- “Africa for the blacks!” -- swept the continent on which I was born. We Muslims made dignity difficult for people darker than us. We callously exploited native Africans. And please don’t tell me that we learned colonial ruthlessness from the British because that begs the question: Why didn’t we also learn to make room for entrepreneurial blacks as the Brits had made room for us?

Media reviews

“This could be Osama bin Laden’s worse nightmare.”
–United Press International

“Reading it feels like a revelation. [Irshad Manji] does what so many of us have longed to see done: assail fundamentalist Islam itself for tolerating such evil in its midst. And from within.”
–New York Times

“Manji has in no way abandoned her Muslim identity.... What exactly [she] is refusing to do is simple: she refuses to accept that Islam is a stagnant and unchanging structure.”
–The Friday Times (Pakistan)

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–Jakarta Post (Indonesia)

“This fraudulent book has now become a guide to Islam.”
–Arab News (Saudi Arabia)

“I was deeply surprised by what she had to say. And deeply grateful.”
–Columnist Hesham Hassaballa, Muslimwakeup.com

“Ms. Manji is a blazingly articulate young Canadian Muslim. The subject of her new book … is a loud, clear call for honesty and reform. It is wry, blunt and irreverent, but never bitter.”
–Columnist Margaret Wente, The Globe and Mail

“[The Trouble with Islam Today] has notably expanded the international sweep of Canadian writing; no other Canadian polemic has ever reached so far so fast.”
–Columnist Robert Fulford, National Post

“The democratic movements that have now emerged have shown just how many young Muslims want to give voice to their aspirations and achieve their full potential. If you want to get a taste of what they sound like, read Irshad Manji’s courageous book, The Trouble with Islam Today.”
–Columnist Thomas Friedman, New York Times

“Bigger, much bigger, than girl meets God.”
–O, The Oprah Magazine

“One of the most hard-hitting analyses of Islam to appear since the Sept. 11 attacks.”
–Philadelphia Inquirer

“A manifesto for the progressive side.… Hot with revolutionary questions, anger and challenges.”
–The Independent (UK)

“Passionate, courageous and astonishingly funny.”
–The Jerusalem Post

“Beyond controversial.… Her easy conversational style, addressed to ‘my fellow Muslims,’ makes it accessible to a wide range of readers.”
–The Toronto Star

“Direct, tightly reasoned, and packed with knockout punches.”
–Montreal Gazette

“A book that challenges the reader to ask questions and think. One doesn’t have to agree with everything she says. It is the duty of the silent Muslim masses to join in this conversation about Islam.”
–Winnipeg Free Press

“Crammed with acute observations and cogent arguments that show Islam is much more than fatwas and fasting.”
–Edmonton Journal

“Worthy of close attention and praise as a heartfelt declaration of faith in the power of argument to reveal important insights about a religion whose global significance increases every day.”
–Georgia Straight (Vancouver)

“A brisk, brash, fascinating read. It bristles with ideas, both intelligent and challenging. Manji has done her homework and her vigorous defence of controversial positions is not only admirable, but convincing.”
–The London Free Press

“Irshad Manji may appear an unlikely reformer, but who better to lead an international revolt than a former political refugee, a dimpled, brown-skinned lesbian, a supercharged, Blackberry-toting, 35-year-old media entrepreneur.”
–Toronto Life

“Irshad Manji breaks every taboo in the book, while also challenging our prejudices about Islam. What’s more, she does so as a Muslim, and not as a Westernized woman preaching from the pulpit of a feminist ivory tower.”
–Quantara.de (German Internet portal promoting dialogue with the Islamic world)
 
“An impassioned and committed advocate.... She dares to shine light on areas where Islam has gone wrong.”
–Folha de Sao Paolo (Brazil)

“This is a bold book, considering that many North Americans are still tending their wounds. Manji draws the line and crosses it, all in one graceful gesture.”
–Avenue magazine

“Despite what Irshad Manji’s enemies say, her only crime is a questioning nature.”
–Sydney Morning Herald

“I cannot urge Irshad Manji more strongly to maintain her frank, open and intelligent approach. This cause is, I believe, the most important new movement in several decades.”
–Jane Mansbridge, Adams Professor of Political Leadership and Democratic Values, Harvard University

“Some of the greatest world-historical changes have been sparked by one person with a love of humanity, a big idea and a commitment to see it take hold. That describes Irshad Manji.”
–Charles Hill, Distinguished Fellow, International Security Studies, Yale University

“In the end, it is impossible to dislike someone who in her own idiosyncratic way asks, and tries to answer, one of the central questions of our time: ‘How do we sow reform in the Muslim world – without becoming cultural colonizers?’”
–The Economist